Been wondering why some couples after broke up, they put all the blame on he/she who said broke up n not blaming on themselves? can't they just think he/she that said broke up must have their own reason behind it? and what's the point of trying to break he/she apart, whereby they have found their happiness? if you were trying to break them apart, they are laughing at u, cos to them u are the LOSER n they're the WINNER. past is already past, just move on n don't look BACKED! sometimes u just got to think back what have u done that's cause he/she to said broke up, and not just by putting all blames on he/she by knowing nothing at all is unfair. most foolish thing is he/she said this or that to you, n you couldn't accept it n you try to change yourself by etc. becoming bad, go drink, go smoke, do silly things is just CHILDISH. so what if u have bought branded stuff, phones, cars, bikes by showing them u are rich n living happily without he/she? and yet wallet is empty? i rather wallet have money n not by having those stuff is better. :) 'Be who you are n not by changing to who u are not suppose to be in' If you really love he/she, let he/she go and look for their happiness, you will feel happier too. ^^ i find this song is quite meaningful ---> 李聖傑-你們要快樂 n 李聖傑 - 癡心絕對 林隆璇&李聖傑-妳那麼愛他